Holidays
Holiday Surviving Guide
Choosing to simplify the holidays can
be enriching, no matter why you have arrived at the decision. Putting magic into
the holidays takes a flight of fancy, not a spending spree. Don't be concerned that
your children will suffer just because money is tight this year. Remember, for children
the process of the holidays is more important than the fished product.
The spirit and the anticipation is what give children
joy. Creating the holiday spirit is like believing in fairies, it takes positive
thinking and an optimistic outlook. Don't think in terms of "we don't have, we can't
afford" instead, create the best gift of all - memories. Memories never break or
get old; they are things you and your family can cherish forever.
For example:
- Get the whole family outside as
much as possible. Nature grounds us and gives us a sense of our place in the world.
Taking family walks, having a sledding party, hosting a marshmallow roast are all
virtually free and fill us with the wonder of the season and restore our souls.
- Tell your children stories about
your favorite childhood Christmas or Hanukkah season. Check books out from your
library and read a new story every night for week before the big day. The librarians
can help you choose the best holiday selections.
- Teach your children or friends all
your favorite holiday songs. Get together with family and friends, hold a practice
session,
then go caroling at a nursing home, hospital, homeless shelter, and around
your neighborhood. You'll feel wonderful.
- Eat and read stories by candlelight
and fill your home with the aromas of the season - your kids will never forget the
magical sensation. Candlelight has a magical soothing effect. Whining argumentative
children start whispering and get a dreamy look about them. If you have a fireplace,
build a fire and turn out all lights. Sing or tell stories, pop popcorn, drink hot
chocolate, bundle up together and enjoy the holiday spirit.
